For some people, marriage is a dream. Either consciously or not, they were trying desperately to find a mate or to force myself to get married. Are you one of them?
According to Dr. Phil - a relationship expert who frequently appears on talk show Oprah - a lot of things to consider carefully before finally getting married. Therefore, Dr. Phil recommends that you consider some of the questions below prior dulu.matang.
1. what is your focus? Are you obsessed with a fantasy about the wedding or want to really get married? If you crave 'perfect wedding', remember that the style of a fairy tale marriage never existed. Everything could be changed as expected, though the event has been prepared carefully.
2. Are you planning a wedding while still a single? Dr Phil warned, if you're too busy wishing the Cinderella-style wedding than live real life, do not be surprised if the prince did not come.
3. Need to know if you are too desperate to get married, you are unconsciously sending a signal that makes other people feel scared. According to Dr. Phil, seven percent of communication is verbal, while 93% are non-verbal. Too often touching or give facial jealous when I saw other people getting married, maybe?
4. Do you think that married life will be complete? It is a wrong notion. Not advised to not respect marriage, but you were not born to be 'half' and had become a whole person if you are married.
5. If you already have a partner, whether you have discussed everything about your wedding? Start of a career, a division of labor, money, children, law and even a place to live. If not, how can you be sure you can combine two different lives?
