Reasons Why Men Afraid to Marriage

Commit to one woman in his life is one of the biggest challenges for man. Man feel the need for a strong commitment as well as careful consideration before it can do that.

Man worried woman he chose was more concerned with her self and her friends, are some of the reasons why men are afraid to marry quickly. "Men do not like to feel rejected and unrecognized," says marriage therapist and blogger BetheSmartWife.com, Carin Goldstein. As reported glo.msn, here are six of the biggest fears a man of marriage:

1. Less Attention

With kids, career and many other things that demand your attention, it will make the couple feel less attention and affection. "Over marriage, men often feel it only serves as a walking ATM that only sought when necessary to finance or financial problems," says Julie Orlov, psychotherapist, speaker as well as author of The Pathway to Love.

So try to take a minimum of 30 minutes a day to talk with your spouse about the activities throughout the day, not discuss finances or children. This needs to be done to make her feel cared for and remain important to you.

2. Acting Like His Mother

Maybe he was glad to be your expertise and all-round split time in doing things like her mother. But that does not mean you should always intervene at all times as is often done by a mother. So just try to tell her to notify and warn Like if it is acting sucks.

3. Gossiping about Himself

The habit of gossiping and telling every detail quarrel with your spouse to friends is not a habit that endeared a man to women. Companions will probably be the one who was always there when we needed fatherly exchange ideas. But you should avoid talking about problems at home too much detail, especially about the ugliness of husbands.

4. Change

In contrast to women who wish to be more mature partner may change or be responsible after marriage, a man hoped that the woman he loves does not turn into another person after marriage. He wants the attention, affection and behavior that you show him the same throughout his life. Do a hobby or avocation are wont to do before Like get married, so as to strengthen relationships fostered.

5. Change it to Be Someone Else

As he does not want Like to change, he is also afraid you change and dictates to a person who is no longer familiar. If he has a habit of spoiled, smoking or ignored at the time of dating, the frontal change will only make Like tired and also disappointed. Pay attention and also the approach that couples understand why Like want him to turn into a better mainly so he became the role model for your family.

6. No More Me Time

Either play the game or just read the news in the morning, and no longer have the time to hang out with her friends is a feared a man happens after marriage. "Both sides still need and have a right to relax and spend time with her friends. Give him time to get together or just hanging out with friends. Way when she returned home, her feelings have become more relaxed and casual. Yourself too can take turns doing this with Like friends.