Many assumptions and research explaining that the marriage should be based on the durable good communication. Giving praise or sympathy can be a good example
According to wedding consultant Randi Gunther, Ph.D, couples who communicate well typically use the same words when speaking. If you want your marriage a success and durable, try to train it a habit to say five sentences to the couple.
According to wedding consultant Randi Gunther, Ph.D, couples who communicate well typically use the same words when speaking. If you want your marriage a success and durable, try to train it a habit to say five sentences to the couple.
1. "We can face it together"
Gunther said that "marriage is full of temptation". If a partner tells you that he has lost his job, should your reaction is to calm him by explaining any difficult situation, you and your partner can face it together.
2. "You can do this better than me"
"This is a great asset in a relationship if both partners are able to know their weaknesses. If your husband is better than when in the kitchen, do not try to set it up. Better let him do it and thank you for cooking delicious food for you," said Gunther.
3. "I'm angry"
"People often say that they are not angry for the sake of avoiding argument, but it just worsen the situation. Can express your emotions appropriately and honestly to make the relationship more mature," said Gunther again.
4. "Please tell me what is going on"
This word implies that you care about with a partner. Gunther said that these words also express your presence, explain that you want your spouse to listen and talk to you.
5. Tell Directly
"We live in a time of advanced technology where people tend to communicate via laptops and smartphones on their feelings. Read 'I'm sorry' does not have the same effect when the sentence is pronounced in person. Couple who were always together physically and emotionally, much more close to each other, "
