Marriage is one of the important moments in life. When married, it could be many things from you and your partner has changed.Definitely something that was previously closed after marriage it will be more open. So, what are the changes in women after marriage
1. Staying Together
Unless you and your husband long-distance relationship, after marriage the couple lived together. Author of 'There's a Spouse in My House: A Humorous Journey Through the First Years of Marriage', Peter Scott said that life can be very different when you and he live at home. Maybe you do not like the habit of putting dirty clothes or she is less like a painting you bought at a garage sale. Whatever it is, marriage is about how couples understand each other. You and he also needs to adjust all the properties and habits. Starting from the sleeping position to the affairs of the bathroom.
2. Finance
When you are living alone and still single, you can set their own spending and revenue. However, when married, according to the author of The Newlywed's Instruction Manual, Caroline Tiger, your income (if you have one) also be an important resource for families. You and your partner need to discuss any matters that need to be discussed about money. For example, who pays the household (electricity, monthly belaja, water, etc.), saving for children's education, saving for the vacations, and more. When married, you may no longer have fun as they pleased with the income you have.
3. How to Solve Conflicts
Author of 'The Nest Newlywed Handbook: An Owner's Manual for Modern Married Life', Carley Roney said to have a happy marriage partner should be able to negotiate when they have disagreements. While still dating, you can easily hang up or refuse to see him during an argument. However, when married, 'end' argument is no longer as easy as that. Marriage makes you and your husband would not want to have respect for each other, undermining each other and are no longer willing to listen. If the conditions of courtship still happen, get ready your marriage will not last.
4. Decision Making
While still dating, you can freely decide when you want a vacation or going karaoke with friends. But when it means you're married and your husband are a team. Therefore, all decisions relating to family affairs should be conducted jointly. You need to ask or talk first with your partner for who knows your personal affairs can be distracting.
