A growing number of husbands and wives who end their marriage easily. Divorce seems to be the only way for all problems.
Maintaining a marriage is not something easy. You and your husband should not give up. Here are seven things that can make marriages preserved, as described by the bestselling author of 'The Secret Lives of Wives' Iris Krasnow:
1. No Problem If you and your husband Have a secret
There is no good standard of how marriage should be. So you do not have to feel bound by the rules should matter whether or not there is a secret in a marriage.
According to Iris, punyamasalah everyone, so do not be afraid if your marriage is in conformity with the rules or not. No one knows what's going on in the marriage except you and your husband. So you and your husband are free to write its own rules, according to the agreement and still have a secret.
2. Do not Rely On Just One Person
Make the marriage remains intact takes creativity. If you just rely on one person in the marriage, can lead to divorce.
Women who have always relied on her husband in any case are usually lonely and irritable. While women are not really spend all her time with her partner, even more happily, that the two strategies. Couples who do this, can grow with each other, but not make them dependent.
3. Hanging out with friends a Great
Iris from interviews with hundreds of women to the writing of his book, he found a wife who is very satisfied with her marriage had a strong relationship with her girlfriends. The woman often traveled together with her friend. These women can be friends the best place to share stories and provide support when you are sad or happy.
4. Doing Separate Vacations
You love the beach, but your husband love in the mountains? Not a problem. According to Iris, the couple did not have to always diving holidays together. Even with a break, a wedding can be more harmonious and warmer than ever.
5. Men Stay Make friends with
After marriage, women sometimes they have to limit themselves in the mix with men. But according to Iris, it is actually not necessary. Women continue to be friends with him because he often feels that you are really smart and beautiful (it's because they do not live at home and get used to you). Feeling of being adored it can foster self-confidence of women.
6. Do not expect too High
You should not expect too high if the marriage will always be happy. Expect a wedding to be perfect it risky to make you and your husband divorced.
The fact that a marriage does not always go perfectly made woman who has been married for years can create their own purpose and passion of his life outside the relationship with her husband. Emphasized iris, a happy marriage could occur if each couple can live happily without a partner.
7. thankful
The wives, no matter how successful you are, remember to always love the man you married. Appreciate your husband who has allowed a career and develop themselves.When arguing, do not always try to be a winner. If necessary, give in and say 'sorry', rather than maintain the anger that can be toxic.
Partner's ability to forget and forgive after a fight, that's the real secret to a marriage that can last a long time.
