5 Wrong Myths About Marriage

Many myths about marriage that are believed to bring happiness. The myth is sometimes raises high expectations for the majority of people are planning a wedding. In fact, the myth is not necessarily true and the opposite happened. Here are five myths about marriage that you should not be ignored, as reported by Times of India.

1. Marriage Make You Not Lonely Again
   Lots of couples that justify the myth. They assume that in the wedding, all things will be undertaken and paid for both. If you're plagued by problems at work or with family, they assume there will be an accompanying spouse so that they will not be lonely. In fact, some women today still feel lonely even if they are married. For those of you who are lonely and feel that marriage is the solution, you need to think and to identify more about the myth. Get married because you are willing and ready.
   
2. Having Sex anytime
   Sexual desire and frequency you to have sex depending on their libido. In addition, sexual desire may decrease with increasing time. Couples who have been in conflict with one another is certainly not getting enough sexual satisfaction. If you think that marriage can always satisfy the sexual desire, not entirely true. There are times when couples can not have sex because it was too tired from work piling up, busy to take care of a child or a very limited time. Marriage is a complicated thing, not just a way to legalize for sex.
   
3. Women Do not Need to Work After Marriage
   This myth tends to be less realistic. Today, according to the demands of the various requirements that must be met, it seems very normal if a woman should also have their own jobs. Having a husband that does not mean your financial situation will improve so that all needs that suit your lifestyle can be met. Your spouse also may be overwhelmed and a little mind if he is required to meet all your needs.
   
4. Having a Happy Family
   Everyone who plan to marry would also like to win the hearts of the family-law and spouse. They have expectations and they are even convinced that the family of the couple will cherish and love them like family. In fact, there are circumstances that could have been far from expectations. Conflicts, differences of opinion and principle will inevitably color every big family. Give love and concern for your partner's family, but do not expect much.
   
5. Children Will Strengthen the relationship
   Many felt that the child can strengthen the quality of marriage and defuse conflicts that occur in people who have been married. However, it is not uncommon that the opposite is true. In fact, research conducted by Brian Doss, PDD from Texas A & M University and Galena Rhoades, PhD, Scott Stanley, PhD, and Howard Mark, PhD, of the University of Denver showed that satisfaction marriage faster decline in couples who have had children.

So, before deciding to have children on the grounds that the marriage can become happier, you should carefully consider other aspects. Are you both really want a child right now? Are you and spouse ready to have children?