Maybe you've been in a relationship with a man. However, he has not asked you to marry until now. What causes it?"Determinants of continued presence or absence of a relationship often occurs because men are afraid to commit, but this was not the major," said Chris Easter of a co-founder of Man Registry. Consider the reasons for delaying marriage he quoted from the Huffington Post.
1. Not enough Money
Money is very sensitive. Some men do not want to get married if you feel he has not been able to finance his family later. That does not mean he's not serious, but instead he wanted to give the best to you. The man thought that he was supporting his household and he was responsible for it. Thus, you must understand and remain at his side until he is ready to apply for you.
2. Already Feeling Too Ease with Relationship
Many women and men who felt it was very fit like husband and wife. In fact, not least among those who frequent visits to the couple's house and stayed there for days. It makes men feel there is no difference between married or unmarried status. Perhaps, they also feel tired because of the relationship for years.
If you encounter this situation, try to find time to talk about your relationship further. After all, marriage is not just living together, but manages to be even better relationship in the future and have offspring as your successor and your partner.
3. Focus on career
Not a few men who put off marriage because of work. He just wanted the focus to reach his goals before building a family. Such a man would think that after the marriage can no longer pursue the dreams and hopes. He wants a happy marriage because of his efforts. So you have always encouraged him gain success. All of this also for the future of both of you.
4. Still Want Free
This reason has been frequently discussed in many books. Men often fear can not be free after the marriage. Responsibility is so great a burden in her life. Therefore, he feared a serious commitment in your relationship.
You try to discuss the continuation of good relations. Give the belief that marriage is not the end of the freedom of men. Reduce your possessiveness and jealousy that he does not feel constrained.
5. The family came from Broken Home
It became one of the most difficult to overcome. He had the bitter experience of a family. He was always a crisis of confidence with everyone even with you though. He did not want to experience failure as both parents so that makes it very careful to choose a woman.
Make him believe that you really love and want to live together forever. Maybe you need help counselors in order to convince him of a harmonious marriage. Do not do anything stupid that could ruin your faith with.
