Many couples do not see the importance of engagement before marriage, so not many are doing it. In fact, there are some cultures who are advocating a process of engagement in advance, as an early stage before heading to the gates of marriage.
However, along with future developments, many people who do not understand the benefits that can be obtained through the engagement period and assume this is merely part of a mere formality. Well, if you are now entering a more serious relationship than dating and want to go to the wedding, try to consider the problem of engagement with reading some of the following benefits:
1. Engagement becomes a solid footing before marriage Once you declare the he will be a couple forever, in this period you will both learn to listen intently to each other, discussing different views, and most importantly, celebrate your journey of love and commitment.
2. Through engagement, you learn to plan No need to plan the future of the family first. When engaged, you will surely be busy making plans for the wedding day, right? From there you will learn how to plan an important thing, so best to have to accommodate the needs and desires of both parties. If in this phase has passed, will certainly be easier for you to make other plans, such as when to have children for example.
3. Familiarize yourself on the fact you no longer live alone If it had when I was dating you do not need every time saying goodbye when it will go, now you learn a bit about sharing life with others. The extent to which you can feel comfortable when life no longer lived alone and whether or not you can always be honest to say what you do. In addition, you will also learn to trust your partner to take actions that have a major impact both of you.
4. Learn to deal with new roles If your life was filled with roles as a child, working in the office, and lovers, there is now a new role you need to learn: that the (future) wife. For that, you can be will begin to learn to take care of their own home-assuming you will no longer stay at home parent. In addition, how to take care of her husband by preparing food and his needs. Learn cooking or housework would be fun to do at this time.
