1. Recognize the problem
While starting prepare for a wedding, which was so prominent an issue will come from you mother-in-law. Nearly sixty percent of the wife's mother who said that they were 'good' but still encounter the problem that concerned her.
Remember, the dispute with the law can lead to big problems, both in matters of marriage preparation or, in later life with your partner. Therefore, you courage to further open up and communicate with the prospective mother-in-law. That way, no longer the word 'stress' as you prepare for your wedding needs.
2. open
When preparing for a wedding, try to be more open and honest with parents and prospective in-laws. Tell them that it is your wedding and your partner. It is time for you to start a life of its own without orders from the parents.
Intervention of parents and in-laws usually happens because they feel that this is the last chance to 'manage' the lives of their children. Even so, the wedding has always been the focus of the bride and groom and their new family member give advice and rocks when prompted.
3. proactive
Just because you want to have a dream wedding suit, does not mean you ignore everything about the law and the law. To maintain a closer relationship, you should give a small role and is open to ideas from their party.
In addition to you and your partner, know that marriage is a big moment for the parents and brother in law. But, do not forget to remind them of their limitations as well, all the final decision can only be provided by you and your partner.
