American Psychologist, Dr. Susan Orenstein gives the following three rules are based on experience with various clients whose marriage was almost over divorce.
1. Do not Forget the Small Things
Just like sports, romantic relationships also has a gradual character. You could probably just do not have time to exercise for an hour each day. But if you do, at least for 15 minutes in the morning and 20 minutes during the day, the result would be worth the one hour gym.
Dr. Susan explained again, you may not have time to do a romantic vacation with your husband. But you and your spouse can each show loving feelings in everyday life, through the little things. For example, when the couple called, try to put an end to whatever you're doing. If indeed you are not very busy, a time to ask him about the day that has just gone through. Show an interest is very meaningful for the couple.
2. Beware of Facebook or Other Social Networking Sites
You need to be aware of adverse Facebook to the marriage relationship. It is no secret that social networking sites could be one cause of breakdown of the household.
Dr. Susan says there are some activities that you can actually become a boomerang eventually to your own. For example, is associated both with former lover again. If your love affair with the former first foundered on good terms, it is not impossible that the seeds of romance can be growing again.
3. Become As Pet Dog
Consider how the behavior of dogs, they will always be delighted to see the owners go home. They will greet and show how nice to see the owner has returned home, only with body language.
Dr. Susan suggested, why not imitate what the pet dog. When the couple go home, stop doing whatever you were doing. Greet him well and saw his eyes, show them how happy you look at it. This simple gesture can be have a major impact for your marriage relationship.
